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Homosexuality

by David E. Moss

Homosexual people are among those who desire to be full partners in American society. Many of them have successfully come out of the closet and have openly acknowledged their orientation. In the political arena, they have been able to craft a powerful lobbying force, resulting in a significant change in the legal attitude toward homosexual people. However, there is still a large segment of the populace that considers homosexuality to be immoral, or at least distasteful, and therefore unwelcome.

To combat resistance, the gay community has waged a campaign to redefine the concept of homosexuality in the mind of the public. It claims that homosexuality is not a behavior but a state of being. Scientific research is used to show a connection between a homosexual orientation and a person’s genes, making it as natural as the color of a person’s skin. The conclusion they derive from this is that the gay community deserves an equal status with other identifiable groups meriting rights, privileges and protection as they interact within society.

Perhaps as a means of appeasing their own consciences, many members of the gay community seek an affirming relationship with Christianity. They desire the same privileges as heterosexuals in church membership, marriage and ordination. They want to be full partners in the Body of Christ, while maintaining their homosexual lifestyle.

As part of this quest, Holy Scripture has been reinterpreted with a favorable view of homosexuality. Eunuchs are identified as the scriptural equivalents of people with homosexual orientations. Sodomites are changed from homosexuals to people with inhospitable attitudes. Abusive homosexual activity is condemned, but the Bible now is viewed as affirming natural, wholesome same sex love.

God warned us that in the last days we would face perilous times. Included in this would be the distortion of natural affection among those who subscribe to a form of godliness. Traditionally, homosexuality has been understood to be part of the unnatural affection that would contaminate the church? Is this correct? Does the Bible characterize homosexuality as immoral, or have Bible scholars been wrong for thousands of years?

Homosexuality Is Not an Orientation

  1. The Contention

    A person can be held responsible for choices he makes, but for those things over which he has no control, it is unethical to make a value judgement. For example, if a person is short or tall, black or white, or born into a particular family, he had no choice about it, and there is no basis for judging these things to be right or wrong. On the other hand, if a man chooses one behavior over another, it is fair for society to judge whether or not he was acting responsibly.

    This principle is at the heart of determining the morality of homosexuality. If homosexuality is genetic, a condition of a person’s life over which he had no control, then no one has the moral right to condemn those who are of this orientation. However, if it is not inherited, but is, rather, a chosen lifestyle, behavior is fair game for moral scrutiny.

    Participants in the gay community understand this principle and are frantically attempting to prove that their lifestyle was determined for them not chosen by them. Coming to their assistance, Time Magazine published an article in their July 26, 1993 issue entitled “Born Gay?” It began with these words:

    “What makes people gay? To conservative moralists, homosexuality is a sin, a willful choice of godless evil. To many orthodox behaviorists, homosexuality is a result of a misguided upbringing, a detour from a straight path to marital adulthood; indeed, until 1974 the American Psychiatric Association listed it as a mental disorder. To gays themselves, homosexuality is neither a choice nor a disease but an identity, deeply felt for as far back as their memory can reach. To them, it is not just behavior, not merely what they do in lovemaking, but who they are as people, pervading every moment of their perception, every aspect of their character.”

    The article then sites a study by the National Cancer Institute’s Laboratory of Biochemistry that suggests a genetic origin for homosexuality. Even though the scope of the research is very limited and is insufficient to claim to be scientific proof, it has provided the gay community with a powerful tool to influence the public attitude toward homosexual people.

    Adopting this premise, “Christian” homosexuals use the Bible to “prove” that God endorses their identity. In a pamphlet entitled “Christianity & Homosexuality” Michael Piazza contends that homosexuality as an identity cannot be condemned because the Bible never addresses “the idea of persons being homosexual”.

    “Nowhere in the Bible is the idea of persons being homosexual addressed. The statements are, without exception, directed at certain homosexual acts. Early writers had no understanding of homosexuality as a psycho-sexual orientation… The biblical authors were referring to homosexual acts performed by persons they assumed were heterosexuals.”

    Mr. Piazza tries to add Biblical affirmation for the homosexual identity by suggesting that the eunuchs of the Bible were homosexual people (contradicting his own contention that the Bible never refers to people as being homosexual). He claims one of the earliest converts to Christianity was a gay person, the Ethiopian Eunuch. He also claims that Jesus offered his approval and acceptance of homosexuals by saying “some eunuchs were born so; others had been made eunuchs and still others choose to be eunuchs for the Kingdom’s sake.”

  2. The Truth

    The truth is that the Bible never refers to a homosexual identity because there is no such thing. Obviously, the Bible would not talk about something that does not exist. Early Biblical writers did not merely assume that certain people were heterosexual, they knew that this is the only kind of people God made. By Divine decree, every human being is heterosexual regardless of what he thinks he is (Genesis 1:27; 2:24-25). Scripture condemns homosexual acts because they are behavioral perversions of God’s heterosexual design for the human race. This is why it is referred to in Romans 1:26 and 27 as women changing the natural use into that which is against nature: and men leaving the natural use of the woman, burning in lust one toward another, men with men working that which is unseemly.

    Concerning eunuchs, the Bible always portrays them as people without a sexual identity. Kings made servants into eunuchs not to change their sexual orientation but to eliminate it. Physically, eunuchs may have retained some capacity to function sexually, In a technical sense, there is absolutely no basis for saying that any remaing sexual interest was automatically homosexual in nature. Actually, the psychological effect often eliminated their sexual interest altogether. When Jesus referred to eunuchs in Matthew 19, it was in utter contrast to marriage and the implied sexual activity of that union. The eunuchs Jesus had in mind were totally celibate. They had rendered sexual activity irrelevant in their lives so that no sexual orientation was part of their identity. He was affirming that those who are born with the ability to live celibate lives are free from the desire to be sexually active and have the advantage of serving
    the Lord with all of their energy, escaping some of the cares of this world.

    Homosexuality Is a Behaviour

    The Bible condemns all homosexuality as an activity that is an abomination to the Lord. Scripture offers no favorable argument in support of the gay community of our day and the silence of Scripture is no argument at all.

    Long after the city of Sodom had been destroyed, the Bible talked about sodomites. For thousands of years, the accepted definition of a sodomite was one who violated the intended nature of human sexuality. The gay community wants to change this definition to have it refer to “bigoted people, ready to discriminate against those they detest”, but changing the definition of words does not alter Divine Law.

    Regardless of what other sins the men of Sodom may have been guilty (and no doubt there were many), the context in Genesis 19 clearly refers to their desire for perverted sexual activity. Gay people argue that Lot’s offer of his daughters to the men of the street proves they were not homosexual. Actually, it proves their sexual intent and contradicts the theory of inhospitality. In addition, a large segment of those who participate in homosexual activity consider themselves to be bi-sexual. Using Lot’s daughters to fulfill their perverted sexual passions would not have been an unheard of alternative. They could have as easily “sodomized” the girls as they would have the men.

    The Real Issue!

    Liberal minded people of our day have contrived a new code of social ethics: To love someone is to acknowledge all of their behavior as morally acceptable. To accuse someone of immorality is to hate them.

    They have created a god to their own purposes; one who loves everybody and accepts them just as they are; one who never points the finger of blame. Their god offers only a list of “things to do”, and has completely eliminated all “thou shalt nots” from his commandments.

    Conservative Christians are in conflict with the liberal community, not because we do not love them, but because we worship a different God than they do. Our God loves people just as they are, but he does not accept them on that basis. Our God is also very passionate about the distinction between right and wrong. In His Book, He describes the errors of human behaviour in great detail. In the New Testament letters alone, He points the finger of accusation over 800 times. Among these is the abomination of homosexual activity.

    As God’s children, our passion for right and wrong does not make us hate those we call sinners, but with God, we have great compassion for them. We point to their sin, not to condemn them, but to help them understand the desperation of their condition. We want to rescue homosexuals (as well as those guilty of other sins) because they are burning in a carnal passion that brings eternal destruction. We love the people — but we hate the sin that has blinded their eyes to the truth; and we want to help them escape this terrible bondage.

Conclusion

As long as they subscribe to the identity doctrine, there will remain a great gulf between homosexual people and us who are conservative Christians. They will continue to insist that they do not need to be rescued and will refuse to accept anything less than a full endorsement of their lifestyle. We will try to convince them that they are wrong.

The difference between us is not who we are but what we believe. They have convinced themselves that God agrees with them and they resent anyone who arouses feelings of guilt concerning the identity they claim. We believe the only real identity any of us can claim as human beings is that of a sinner. We believe God is right when he condemns what we do and labels us as sinners because of it.

As a first step in bridging this gap, we must convince homosexual people that while we believe what they do is wrong, we still love them as people. We must show them that this is the same disctinction God made when He commended His love to the world, calling us sinners and in the same breath sending His Son to die for us (Romans 5:8). They must understand that when God declares us to be guilty, His love immediately intensifies, and so does ours.

To complete the rescue, we must show them that God’s love does not affirm people in their sinful behavior but rescues them from it. When a person receives Jesus Christ as his Savior, all that is wrong is forgiven and the sinner is changed into a new creature. Carnality is displaced by an ability to conform to the righteous standards of God; and by this transformation, the human being is brought into fellowship with the holiness of the Almighty.

Far from being hate, this is the greatest love anyone could ever know. Homosexual people need not be afraid of us. We extend to them open arms of compassion and invite them to come to the truth and be free.

I Corinthians 13

by David E. Moss

Love. It is the most electric concept known to man. It is the stuff by which every human relationship survives—or dissolves for lack of it. It is a many splendored thing. It is what the world needs, because without it, the human soul is utterly destitute.

But what is it?

Poets have written about it; philosophers have mused about it; and musicians have crooned about it through every generation of mankind. Yet love seems to remain so enigmatic.

The reason is simple. Man tends to seek a human definition to everything he experiences, but love defies a definition derived from a human context. Love is of God, because God is love (I John 4:7,8). If something is so intricately a part of the heart of God, any understanding of it must come directly from Him.

This makes His definition of love in I Corinthians 13 so significant. It is clear that God considers love to be the primary ingredient of the spiritual nature of His children. In fact, love is to our spiritual life what breathing is to our physical life.

  1. The Concept of Love

    1. !(çB0 (Agape)

      There are several Greek words in the New Testament that are translated as “love.” Agape is the one God chose to describe what flows from His heart. In secular usage, agape was an obscure word prior to its appearance in Scripture. The New Testament teaching concerning intimacy with God through the Gospel of Christ (symbolized by the renting of the Temple veil) deserved the coining of a new definition for a rare uncommon word. Agape’s importance was immortalized being used 116 times in the New Testament.

    2. Charity

      Fully twenty five percent of the time agape is translated “Charity” in the King James Version. The reason was to highlight and underscore the real concept of the word. With our modern technology, we can print the words of a text in several ways to bring special attention to it. We can underline words, type bold face letters, enlarge the letters, or use a different type of letter such as italics. In 1611, such devices were tedious and cumbersome. A much more convenient and colorful way to bring emphasis to a word was to use a synonym with a different flare. Whenever you read the word “Charity” in Scripture, it is unnecessary to reduce it to the more simplistic form “love.” In each instance, see the word as highlighted in some decorative fashion, emphasizing the real meaning of love.

      According to I Corinthians 13, Charity is supreme above all other spiritual talents granted to man. It excels speaking with the tongues of men and of angels. It is to be much preferred over the gift of prophecy and the ability to understand all mysteries and knowledge. It is even superior to the faith which has the capacity to remove mountains. And, it is of far greater value than any personal sacrifice a person might make such as distributing all his worldly goods to the poor or being martyred for his faith.

  2. The Elements of Love

    1. Charity suffereth long

      Charity has a fuse so long that no matter how difficult things become it never reaches the point of explosion. Love is so firmly committed to its object that it never reaches the point of saying, “I can’t take it any longer” or “I don’t need this”or “I have to have a life of my own.” Love is so firmly set that it cannot be persuaded to change its mind.

    2. Charity is kind

      Charity always uses gentle mannerisms, being concerned about how its actions will affect others. Character is a marvelous thing, but was meant to be distributed, not hoarded. Love cannot be harbored in a heart, but must be shared. When it is shared, it always acts in such a way which makes others comfortable and refreshed.

    3. Charity envieth not

      Charity never allows passions to generate negative energy, and never expresses resentment toward others. To wear envy in your heart is the same as wearing a sticker on your forehead that says “I am spiritually immature.” Envy creates an atmosphere of contention by hating others for having something it does not have. It seeks to destroy those who have prospered above it. Charity wants only to encourage and it delights in the prosperity of others.

    4. Charity vaunteth not itself

      Charity never over values self, makes a vain display of its own worth, or exaggerates its own accomplishments. Human nature considers importance in the eyes of others to be of great value. Unfortunately, human nature is willing to do anything in order to achieve this. You really are not acting in love if you claim undeserved credit in an attempt to gain more respect, or if you make exaggerated promises which you cannot keep in an attempt to make others feel good. Charity is content to be just what it is and nothing more.

    5. Charity is not puffed up

      Charity never pretends to be something it is not. There is no value in claiming victory when there is none, sounding tough when you are not, saying something is good when it is bad, or believing things that are not true. Charity is always honest and totally devoid of lying, prideful attitudes.

    6. Charity doth not behave itself unseemly

      Charity never does anything to cause others to blush. Excessiveness in any form is incompatible with the concept of love, whether it is the way a person dresses, or the way he behaves, or the way he talks. Charity will always demonstrate respect for the ones it loves and never cause them any embarrassment.

    7. Charity seeketh not her own

      Charity never desires what benefits itself without considering how this will affect others. If any one item in this list epitomizes the essence of love, it is this one. This strikes at the very heart of the divine law of love. Self seekers indulge in liberties at the expense of others. Charity is gratified by the advancement of others. It always seeks the welfare of others rather than of itself.

    8. Charity is not easily provoked

      Charity is not easily ignited to anger, and never starts emotional fires by its contentiousness. When a person is provoked, he has been pushed beyond his level of tolerance. Real love has such a high tolerance quotient, that it is like a candle that simply will not be lit. Charity renders conflict irrelevant because it refuses to participate.

    9. Charity thinketh no evil

      Charity does not keep a record of offenses, debts, faults, errors or mistakes. It never reminds persons about all the wrong things they have done. This is because Charity knows how to forgive. Forgiveness is a promise never to bring up the matter again. Charity keeps this promise unfailingly.

    10. Charity rejoiceth not in iniquity

      Charity takes no pleasure in morally corrupt ethics, and does not enjoy reports of wrong doing. Rejoicing in iniquity includes, (1) expecting to be rewarded for doing something wrong; (2) taking advantage of those who fail; (3) delighting in conspiracy; (4) taking pleasure in those that do things worthy of punishment; and (5) giving God credit for assisting in evil plans. Charity has impeccable ethics and separates itself from the willfulness of the depraved human heart. It takes pleasure in the forgiveness of God that delivers it from iniquity.

    11. Charity rejoiceth in the truth

      Charity elevates truth to the highest priority, and takes pleasure in things that are not afraid to be examined in the light. There are many negative things in life that are factual. But truth implies good quality that is unashamed when exposed to public scrutiny. Bad news may be factually accurate and thus generically true, but because it is not edifying, it cannot be considered truth. Truth welcomes scrutiny and loves to be examined. This is why Charity likes truth so much.

    12. Charity beareth all things

      Charity knows when to stop before its behavior becomes excessive. Love does not complain or make demands. Bearing all things is the quality of meekness, by which love keeps human impulsiveness in check. The notion that we should always speak our mind is not accurate. There is a time to speak and a time to keep silence. Charity knows when to put a lid on it.

    13. Charity believeth all things

      Charity knows the value of being able to believe in a person and practices trust. This is not gullibility. Charity does not let itself be easily deceived nor does it blindly believe what it knows to be untrue. But love does avoid skepticism, reluctance, and conditional belief. To say that Charity believes all things addresses the element of trust that makes a relationship unbreakable. It is the opposite of fear. It is the door of possibility. It is an imperishable commitment.

    14. Charity hopeth all things

      Charity refuses to let experience discourage its hope for tomorrow. It is eternally optimistic. Pessimism is like thirst. Thirst exists because of the lack of water. Pessimism exists because of the lack of hope. Charity knows the source of living water that will never run dry. It never gives up on the possibility that problems will be solved, wounds will be healed, and good feelings will ultimately prevail.

    15. Charity endureth all things

      Charity never lets irresponsible behavior influence its attitude toward the guilty person. Enduring all things is the supreme sacrifice that love makes in order to benefit the lives of others, even if they are your enemies. This is exactly the kind of love God directed toward us even while we were yet sinners. This expresses the unconditional nature of love that keeps two people bonded together for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.

    16. Charity never faileth

      Charity never comes to an end. It does not know how to say, “I don’t love you anymore.”

Conclusion

A summary of I Corinthians 13

As great as these things are:

  • speaking languages few or no one can
  • understanding and being privy to new revelation
  • having a dynamic faith few ever experience
  • giving all you own to meet the needs of others
  • martyrdom

None of them have any real value unless the motivation for them is love. The very thing I may hope to accomplish without love is the very thing that is rendered meaningless without love.

Faith is the thing that connects us to the heart of God. Without faith it is impossible to please Him. Hope is the eye of faith, sustaining it through all that is unseen and uncertain, making it possible for us to believe that God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him.

But love is the very heart of God. It is not a feeling, though exhilarating and refreshing feelings result from it. It is the talent to be selfless and to be sacrificially concerned with the welfare of others. It was the agape love of God that made it possible for His Son to selflessly make Himself of no reputation, to take upon Himself the form of a servant, and as a man, to humble Himself, being obedient unto death, not for any benefit to himself, but solely for the benefit of the lost souls of the human race.

The next time you say to any one, “I love you,” realize what you are telling them. By those three little words you are making a commitment. You are saying, “I promise always to maintain my composure, make you as comfortable as possible, delight in all your prosperity, be content with who I am, be honest about everything, never cause you embarrassment, seek your welfare above my own, refuse to participate in conflict, throw away the record of your mistakes, maintain the highest level of ethics, welcome examination,
know when to stop, build trust in our relationship, be optimistic, endure everything that threatens our relationship, and,
I will never stop doing all of these things.”

This is love.